He seeks attention and approval from other people – but what about you? Self-esteem is a real b*tch. He thinks that he has to either prove to himself that he’s worthy, or look for evidence of it anywhere he can. That was another thing I would do – I craved the attention so much. Maybe he also yearns for people to tell him how cool he is, how great he dresses, or what a sweet job he has. I hope you haven’t caught him on dating sites or apps. Maybe he likes attention from others, flirtation and come-hither looks. I was addicted to approval and validation from other women. This was a huge factor in my relationship ending. My low self-esteem led me to crave attention from other potential partners. ![]() He may seek attention outside the relationship, or activities without you.It’s a powerful starting point, buy it now. Don’t let the title fool you, it’s a book about shame, self-worth and learning to accept yourself. It was a wake-up call, and helped launch my wild journey of transformation. Listen, and if required seek the help of a licensed therapist or psychologist.Ī book I recommend is No More Mr. Buy him books on spirituality, ask him how he feels about himself. If you love him, do what you can to help his HEART. If they don’t love themselves maybe you can do something to help them. It will be hard but think about their perspective. This should be a good thing, right? Not all men act out this feeling in healthy ways. He yearns to love himself, and the struggle to do that can ruin your relationship. If you say ‘I love you’, he probably thinks: ‘ Why would you? You can’t. However he is in a state of constant anxiety, always wishing he could be someone HE loves. But like I said above, he may not even realize it. ![]() His pain and depression is like a dark, heavy, thick blanket that he just can’t shake. You two may have such an obvious, beautiful opportunity for love but he squanders it.
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